I've been considering exactly how to go about a post to reflect the sad news of losing a tenant in the Marck family. Rich's brother, Jay passed away suddenly. The loss has rocked the family and extended family. Rich and I returned to New Jersey for his Memorial. Rich's sister, Cookie and husband, Tom joined us flying from California and staying at the same hotel. We bonded through tears and laughter, propping each other up, when necessary. Cookie adjusting to losing a younger brother and Rich, his older brother. I was amazed at the strength and grace of our nieces and nephews. They are all grown adults, some with children of their own. Jay loved his Parental role and relished in Grand-parental role! Adrienne and Jay didn't miss a holiday where they could lavish love and attention on all. Jay also was very close with his Dad and every holiday event included Dad and Dolores. Jay lived his life to the fullest and the way he wanted-not to be glib, but that's all I ask for from life. But don't get me wrong, his passing has rocked us to the core. It is sad that it took losing a sibling to get us back to New Jersey...but the banter and crap flinging started from minute one with the Nephews and Niece, as it runs strong in the Marck blood. I hoped Jay peeked in on us, felt all our love and loss and chuckled in the comfort we took in teasing each other. I will leave my post at that...Love to Jennifer, David, Daniel and also to Adrienne, Scott, Donna, Joan and the lovely grand nieces: Julia, Hazel and Cici.